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I deleted all my meta accounts a couple years ago (Facebook, Instagram). When I did it I was afraid I would miss out. Nope: 5 years after I feel good about not

by siren2026 5mo ago

I deleted all my meta accounts a couple years ago (Facebook, Instagram). When I did it I was afraid I would miss out. Nope: 5 years after I feel good about not being a dopamine-addicted sheep (At least to Meta). It makes me sick to my stomach whenever I go to a public place and see so many people mindlessly losing their life watching reels and stories full of ads. I Used to take the Caltrain and I estimate >50% of the people were mindlessly scrolling instagram during the 1 hour train ride. The best time to delete * Meta was yesterday. The next best time is Today. (To be honest I recreated a bogus account to sell things on MarketPlace and I cannot believe the amount of crap constantly pushed to me)

platevoltage 5mo ago
I deleted my Facebook account years ago. Recently I tried to make a new one in order to get access to the WhatsApp API to use it for my business, and I just get banned right after the account is created. I'm not sure why, but I guess they don't need my money.
Arainach 5mo ago
What does your social life look like? Because the reality for me is that in any major city, a significant number of places - even if they technically have websites - post all of their events and happenings on Instagram/FB. Sure, I can talk to my close friends on any number of IM platforms, but if I want to get out and have new experiences, join club meetups, be notified of events at venues I care about, etc. - it's Meta or miss out.
- pimeys 5mo ago
  Go to clubs and check the events from ra.co. Go to concerts and art galleries they all have web pages. Berlin, Germany
  - siren2026 5mo ago
    Or dice in NYC. Most venues and places are slowly going away from closed gardens.
    - tokioyoyo 5mo ago
      > Most venues and places are slowly going away from closed gardens. They are? Honestly, first time hearing about this. I've noticed only big events get posted outside of the IG/etc. Even in Tokyo, a simple thing like checking if a place is open on a public holiday is to check their Instagram.
      - ryan_lane 5mo ago
        Sadly in Tokyo, most businesses post their info to twitter or instagram, but in both cases you're able to read without an account (not well, but it's possible).
        amake 5mo ago
        Instagram makes it extremely frustrating without an account. Many times I have checked a small business's opening times on Google Maps only to arrive and find them closed... the only place they reliably post their times is on Instagram. I gave up and got Instagram.
        tardedmeme 5mo ago
        I guess we need a Nitter for Instagram?
        siren2026 5mo ago
        Only way to go is to leave a 1 star review letting them know they need to publish things outside Instagram
        tokioyoyo 5mo ago
        That is insanely awful take. Why would anyone review something negatively without actually checking it out?
        autoexec 5mo ago
- siren2026 5mo ago
  Yeah the instagram posting is such a complete BS. I have a bogus instagram account where I don't follow anyone for the couple times a year I need to find set times for an artist or that kind of stuff. We need to shame artists/events/clubs that only post on Instagram
  - fragmede 5mo ago
    https://19hz.info/ https://19hz.info/
    - Arainach 5mo ago
      Sure, for one category of music in some cities there's a resource. There are often community-curated lists that have some things, but if you want specific things or if you want everything/most things, it's the big platforms. I'm part of some local photography groups. There's a Discord where members plan informal get togethers, but the big events are all posted on Instagram. I follow a number of local bartenders, and their popup events are all on Instagram. Same for local performing artists. My bike club coordinates through a Facebook page. Honestly, none of my non-tech interests are viable (in a group setting) without Meta properties.
      - loloquwowndueo 5mo ago
        Get different interests then? It’s like saying “none of my group interests are viable unless I smoke”.
        Arainach 5mo ago
        I find a life surrounded only by people who already do the things I do unfulfilling. I also find that almost no one who works outside of tech cares enough about privacy or other issues to care to move off the big platforms. I already spend my entire work day surrounded by tech workers, I'm not going to change my hobbies to spend more time around them.
        _t2kx 5mo ago
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- cwnyth 5mo ago
  Maybe I'm just too old for the kinds of activities you're looking to get into, but I haven't had a Facebook since 2014, and had an IG account for just a month or two during the pandemic, and I've had zero qualms finding out information about what I wanted to do or see. It's definitely not the size of the city that matters, as I was in NYC and only recently relocated to a smaller (but still major) city.
  - cwnyth 5mo ago
    *issues, not qualms. Mea culpa on the wrong word.
- coffeefirst 5mo ago
  The first thing I did when I quit social media was sign up for the newsletter of every concert venue in town. I never overlooked a show. I can’t speak to your interests or city, but as a rule, the greatest trick the social apps ever pulled was convincing the world that they are the only way to receive information.
- Cider9986 5mo ago
  If all you need is to view the restaurant/event, imginn.com or kittygr.am works well enough for me. I also like libredirect because it blocks the network connections and is convenient, shame that it's a browser extension it could really be built into the browser or something.
spacechild1 5mo ago
I have been barely using FB, but I deactivate my account early 2025 and I never looked back. I never had Instagram or Twitter. I thought I would miss out on many events, but then I just signed up to a few more newsletters and that's still more events than I have time to vist. I still wish we had a proper replacement for FB events. At least we have a nice market place platform that everyone uses (willhaben.at). For a long time I didn't even know that FB MarketPlace exists.
JKCalhoun 5mo ago
"When I did it I was afraid I would miss out." All the cool kids left FB a decade ago. You're not missing anything.
- siren2026 5mo ago
  well yeah I know that now. But they engineer it so that you feel really bad about trying to leave.
  - dfansteel 5mo ago
    If Zuckerberg is trying to make you feel guilty, take it as supporting evidence that you’re doing the right thing.
TitaRusell 5mo ago
I follow traditional media/journalists. Everything important on social media still reaches me- just 24 hours later.

platevoltage 5mo ago

I deleted my Facebook account years ago. Recently I tried to make a new one in order to get access to the WhatsApp API to use it for my business, and I just get banned right after the account is created. I'm not sure why, but I guess they don't need my money.

Arainach 5mo ago

What does your social life look like? Because the reality for me is that in any major city, a significant number of places - even if they technically have websites - post all of their events and happenings on Instagram/FB. Sure, I can talk to my close friends on any number of IM platforms, but if I want to get out and have new experiences, join club meetups, be notified of events at venues I care about, etc. - it's Meta or miss out.

pimeys 5mo ago
Go to clubs and check the events from ra.co. Go to concerts and art galleries they all have web pages. Berlin, Germany
- siren2026 5mo ago
  Or dice in NYC. Most venues and places are slowly going away from closed gardens.
  - tokioyoyo 5mo ago
    > Most venues and places are slowly going away from closed gardens. They are? Honestly, first time hearing about this. I've noticed only big events get posted outside of the IG/etc. Even in Tokyo, a simple thing like checking if a place is open on a public holiday is to check their Instagram.
    - ryan_lane 5mo ago
      Sadly in Tokyo, most businesses post their info to twitter or instagram, but in both cases you're able to read without an account (not well, but it's possible).
      - amake 5mo ago
        Instagram makes it extremely frustrating without an account. Many times I have checked a small business's opening times on Google Maps only to arrive and find them closed... the only place they reliably post their times is on Instagram. I gave up and got Instagram.
        tardedmeme 5mo ago
        I guess we need a Nitter for Instagram?
        siren2026 5mo ago
        Only way to go is to leave a 1 star review letting them know they need to publish things outside Instagram
        tokioyoyo 5mo ago
        That is insanely awful take. Why would anyone review something negatively without actually checking it out?
        autoexec 5mo ago
siren2026 5mo ago
Yeah the instagram posting is such a complete BS. I have a bogus instagram account where I don't follow anyone for the couple times a year I need to find set times for an artist or that kind of stuff. We need to shame artists/events/clubs that only post on Instagram
- fragmede 5mo ago
  https://19hz.info/ https://19hz.info/
  - Arainach 5mo ago
    Sure, for one category of music in some cities there's a resource. There are often community-curated lists that have some things, but if you want specific things or if you want everything/most things, it's the big platforms. I'm part of some local photography groups. There's a Discord where members plan informal get togethers, but the big events are all posted on Instagram. I follow a number of local bartenders, and their popup events are all on Instagram. Same for local performing artists. My bike club coordinates through a Facebook page. Honestly, none of my non-tech interests are viable (in a group setting) without Meta properties.
    - loloquwowndueo 5mo ago
      Get different interests then? It’s like saying “none of my group interests are viable unless I smoke”.
      - Arainach 5mo ago
        I find a life surrounded only by people who already do the things I do unfulfilling. I also find that almost no one who works outside of tech cares enough about privacy or other issues to care to move off the big platforms. I already spend my entire work day surrounded by tech workers, I'm not going to change my hobbies to spend more time around them.
      - _t2kx 5mo ago
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cwnyth 5mo ago
Maybe I'm just too old for the kinds of activities you're looking to get into, but I haven't had a Facebook since 2014, and had an IG account for just a month or two during the pandemic, and I've had zero qualms finding out information about what I wanted to do or see. It's definitely not the size of the city that matters, as I was in NYC and only recently relocated to a smaller (but still major) city.
- cwnyth 5mo ago
  *issues, not qualms. Mea culpa on the wrong word.
coffeefirst 5mo ago
The first thing I did when I quit social media was sign up for the newsletter of every concert venue in town. I never overlooked a show. I can’t speak to your interests or city, but as a rule, the greatest trick the social apps ever pulled was convincing the world that they are the only way to receive information.
Cider9986 5mo ago
If all you need is to view the restaurant/event, imginn.com or kittygr.am works well enough for me. I also like libredirect because it blocks the network connections and is convenient, shame that it's a browser extension it could really be built into the browser or something.

spacechild1 5mo ago

I have been barely using FB, but I deactivate my account early 2025 and I never looked back. I never had Instagram or Twitter. I thought I would miss out on many events, but then I just signed up to a few more newsletters and that's still more events than I have time to vist. I still wish we had a proper replacement for FB events. At least we have a nice market place platform that everyone uses (willhaben.at). For a long time I didn't even know that FB MarketPlace exists.

JKCalhoun 5mo ago

"When I did it I was afraid I would miss out." All the cool kids left FB a decade ago. You're not missing anything.

siren2026 5mo ago
well yeah I know that now. But they engineer it so that you feel really bad about trying to leave.
- dfansteel 5mo ago
  If Zuckerberg is trying to make you feel guilty, take it as supporting evidence that you’re doing the right thing.

TitaRusell 5mo ago

I follow traditional media/journalists. Everything important on social media still reaches me- just 24 hours later.