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> Then you just pick who you vibe with This is the problem, though. So many hobby clubs and societies have pre-existing cliques, you don't get to pick - you ge
by dingaling 5mo ago
> Then you just pick who you vibe with
This is the problem, though. So many hobby clubs and societies have pre-existing cliques, you don't get to pick - you get selected if they deign, or excluded if not.
I've felt lonelier in many societies than on my own, if that makes sense.
- pavel_lishin 5mo agoTrue, but if they always have an influx of new people, you can form your friendships with them. You can also start your own club - my local friends, I've made through starting a D&D group and running a campaign with them.