> the whole ruby culture seems to be this toxic one where you're respected in proportion to how rude you are I'd be genuinely interested in seeing concrete exa

> the whole ruby culture seems to be this toxic one where you're respected in proportion to how rude you are I'd be genuinely interested in seeing concrete examples of people held in regard in the ruby community who are respected in proportion to how rude they are. Matz, DHH, Avdi Grimm, Steve Klabnik, Yehuda Katz, Aaron Patterson etc. off the top of my head strike me as gratuitously nice human beings.