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There is also that idea of surrounding yourself with "good people" or like minded, people you want to be. I was friendly to everyone and one guy he just drank
by ge96 5mo ago
There is also that idea of surrounding yourself with "good people" or like minded, people you want to be.
I was friendly to everyone and one guy he just drank all the time, reeked of alcohol, no prospects in life, no ambition. Am I supposed to force myself to be around this person just to be nice/equal terms. I want to be around ambitious people.
- WalterBright 5mo agoI like being around people who talk about interesting things other than sports. I remain baffled at how people find sports interesting.
- ge96 5mo agoI'm not a sports guy either, sucks since a lot of women are into it too, I'll see it on their dating profile like ooh man... I'm not gonna be at a stadium watching people run back and forward on a field.
- irishcoffee 5mo agoI love sports, and until a few years severely disliked theater and had no idea why people liked it. Didn't make sense, boring, long, generally stupid. Then I decided to get over myself and see what the fuss was about. Now I get it. I imagine you could do that if you wanted to. Up to you.
- WalterBright 5mo agoI've tried to like sports, in order to fit in. I just gave up on it.
- irishcoffee 5mo agoYou should try to understand sports for yourself. That’s your mistake.
- WalterBright 5mo agoLOL. My dad told me I was bored by baseball because I didn't understand it. I played little league baseball as a kid. I was sure bored, as most of the time was spent standing or sitting around. The only reason "Bad News Bears" was a good movie is they cut about 98% of the baseball game play. Car racing is a bit better. But still, you just watch as the cars go around a circle until they crash, run out of fuel, or win. But I don't mind if you find baseh ball been berry berry good. Just don't tax me for your stadium!
- fsckboy 5mo ago>theater and had no idea why people liked it. Didn't make sense, boring, long, generally stupid. Then I decided to get over myself and see what the fuss was about. Now I get it I'm a techie by choice but I was raised lit'rary. I love the idea of theater, but the actuality, no thanks, attention seeking narcissists strut and fret their hour upon the stage: I only wish they were heard no more. I am a fan of coffee shops, though, but coffee shops in theater districts: bring name-dropping cancelling headphones.
- irishcoffee 5mo agoOh, I very carefully didn't say I _liked_ it, I said I get it.
- xyhopguy 5mo agoNo one wants to be around an alcoholic. But it's not to be nice, but to understand them, their struggles, and their perspectives. Anecdote - I was at a concert with my brother, outside in the smoking area. A homeless woman came by, didn't say anything but was kinda just looking around. My brother is the only one who spoke to her, he offered his cigarette butt. Which is exactly what she was looking for. Never would have occured to me- but I would guess it made her feel more seen and human.