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>relatively little friction That word "relatively" is doing a lot of work in this phrase. 50 options sounds great until you think about the realities of it. As
by djeastm 6mo ago
>relatively little friction
That word "relatively" is doing a lot of work in this phrase. 50 options sounds great until you think about the realities of it. As someone who's moved around a half dozen times, shared "values and beliefs" pales in comparison to the practical concerns of jobs, family, climate.
- Rekindle8090 6mo ago[dead]
- f1shy 6mo agoStill easier to move country inside the EU, as an example.
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- chrisweekly 6mo agoWhat? That seems highly improbable. Moving to a different US state is pretty trivial.
- kstrauser 6mo agoRight? That's a ludicrous assertion. Here's what's required to move somewhere else within the US: 1. Move. At some point, you have to get a new driver's license in your new state and transfer your car registration there to use their license plate instead of your old state's. Those are "mechanical" paperwork transactions, though. You show up at the Department of Motor Vehicles with proof of your new address and they scowl at you and then issue the new one. You don't have to ask permission: so long as you meet the local requirements to do those things (like pass the local driving test, have a car that passes the appropriate inspections), and have the right paperwork (like proof of address, proof of ownership of the car, etc.), you'll get it. And that's the "hard" part. I've moved between states multiple times. With the sole exception of car-related stuff, the only difference between moving between a different apartment in the same complex and moving across the country is that you have to pay your taxes somewhere different the next year.
- f1shy 6mo agooops! Now I read it... reads totally backwards. I meant, moving state is easier as moving between countries in the EU
- red-iron-pine 6mo agohaving moved often for the military -- it's not trivial. and I had the military paying to schlep my stuff and was single + no kids. but it is easier than Europe would be, for sure. yeah there is free movement but often wildly different language, customs, and processes. meanwhile there is WellsFargo, Safeway, and a DMV office in WA and MD
- nostrademons 6mo agoA lot of people underestimate the effect of shared values and beliefs on their happiness, though, and would be better served by taking a lower-paying position to live in an area that fits their values better.