That's literally the point of the comment: It's an unnatural thing to do so we shouldn't be suggesting it as a conversation starter. I wasn't saying it was nor

That's literally the point of the comment: It's an unnatural thing to do so we shouldn't be suggesting it as a conversation starter. I wasn't saying it was normal. I'm trying to explain why it's not normal to do that as a way of discouraging readers from thinking it's a trick they should use to start conversations.