i am the least self centered person you know. I pay close attention to very specific wants and needs, mine and other people's. I want what I want, why wouldn't

i am the least self centered person you know. I pay close attention to very specific wants and needs, mine and other people's. I want what I want, why wouldn't everybody else? but it's generally a one way street not in my direction. you come off as a bully/crybaby conformist combination.