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Having kids and raising them is your primary purpose as a man. Anything else you spend your time on is secondary to that.
by artursapek 6mo ago
Having kids and raising them is your primary purpose as a man. Anything else you spend your time on is secondary to that.
- thrownthatway 6mo agoYou’re absolutely 100% correct. As a mid-fourties family-less man, I absolutely regret many of the decisions I’ve made that got me here. I’ve realised I’ve been playing at a low steaks table. Smashing box and doing drugs is something a guy should do very briefly, if at all, in his early twenties. This is not a Man’s Game. Then he’d better man up and focus on what is Good and Right or his life will be a fucking waste. I mean even just purely selfishly, being frail-aged and having no one who genuine cares about me is fucking terrifying.
- artursapek 6mo agoDamn, that’s heavy man. I’m sorry. I don’t know your situation but men are fortunate enough to be able to reproduce later in life so you could still turn it around. I had my first kid accidentally in college and dropped out to focus on that. Very grateful for it.
- thrownthatway 6mo agoI also had a vasectomy about seven years ago, which are notoriously difficult to reverse. > I had my first kid accidentally in college and dropped out to focus on that. Very grateful for it. Good man.