I told my friend that in my mind I add five minutes every time she does it, but 30 seconds is probably more fair. Perhaps not being able to use them for the fi

I told my friend that in my mind I add five minutes every time she does it, but 30 seconds is probably more fair. Perhaps not being able to use them for the first few minutes, but I guess it's not ideal to make it more annoying for people not playing by our shame rules!