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I understand their perspective but it’s still silly. I’m a competent, highly functional person. I also have idiopathic hypersomnia and IBS-D. I’d love a fix f
by Auracle 6mo ago
I understand their perspective but it’s still silly.
I’m a competent, highly functional person. I also have idiopathic hypersomnia and IBS-D. I’d love a fix for either; I want to live the best life possible.
The whole deaf community opposition to treatment reads as just a defensive mechanism. Being deaf means that one of your limited amount of senses doesn’t work. By definition, they’re disabled. That’d be like people whole are really near or farsighted not using glasses because they’ve decided not being able to see is their culture or personality. It’s ridiculous, and that viewpoint should be more than ridiculed when deaf parents don’t pursue treatment for their children.
- marssaxman 6mo agoThe difference between deafness and other disabilities is that deafness forces you to communicate differently. That communication difference creates a separate language community, which develops its own culture, just as every other language community does. When people belong to a certain culture, that belonging often forms a part of their sense of self. When it comes to children, then, the question is not just "do I want my child to hear better than I can", but also "do I want my child to speak the same language and belong to the same culture that I do" - something most parents want very much.
- altruios 6mo ago> When it comes to children, then, the question is not just "do I want my child to hear better than I can", but also "do I want my child to speak the same language and belong to the same culture that I do" - something most parents want very much. That's simply: 'what is best for my child' vs 'what is best for my relationship with my child'. Only one of those actually has the best interests of the child at heart. Only one of those opinions is respectable. Growing up with the latter leads to resentment towards the parent generally.
- lazyasciiart 6mo agoIt’s like raising your kid in a remote cabin without access to services and schools.
- altruios 6mo agoIts more like making that choice: and it having it be permanent. The child can never visit the city. You can always make someone deaf (unethical), but you can't always reverse hearing loss at an advanced age.
- lazyasciiart 6mo agoThe child can never grow up with education and healthcare. That’s the choice being made.
- marssaxman 6mo agoIt's not me that you need to convince.
- KingMob 6mo agoI think your argument cuts the opposite way that you intended. IIUC, the majority of deaf children are born to non-Deaf parents.
- marssaxman 6mo agoIt was not an argument at all: just trying to understand where other people are coming from.
- lazyasciiart 6mo agoOk but maybe first we could start ridiculing people who skip infant and child vaccinations, or teach their kids religion.
- lynx97 6mo agoOr have them gender-changed before adulthood.