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What a repulsive link. Those images are really distasteful.... Not the pregnancy part but the staging of it. As if your entire being revolves around your stomac

by MrJagil 14y ago

What a repulsive link. Those images are really distasteful.... Not the pregnancy part but the staging of it. As if your entire being revolves around your stomach, and therefor so should everyone elses. Sorry, I'm sensitive to this kind of thing. As if her life suddenly has meaning, so now she has to compensate for all the lost time. Congratulations, though.

UnoriginalGuy 14y ago
Sorry. I only linked that because it is the first thing that came up in my google results and offers a fairly credible level of "proof" (since it has her name, photo, and the company's name). If she had something more professional I would have linked that and will happily edit my post with something like a LinkedIn profile or similar. I wasn't trying to embarrass or show up their spokesman, she just Tweeted from a non-company twitter account and frankly she could have been "anyone." So I wanted to verify that this person could speak for that company and share my findings.
SnydenBitchy 14y ago
Good for you, I guess?
crntaylor 14y ago
You're aware that pregnancy doesn't normally involve the stomach, right?
- deleted 14y ago
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  - ajross 14y ago
    I think the jab was more about making a deliberately inflammatory statement like that, on a complete tangent to the discussion, based on what seems to be a clear distaste of the whole concept of pregnancy, and then misidentifying the organ involved. Yes, you can get away with calling a uterus a "stomach" in some contexts. If you're going to flame about it, get it right.
- MrJagil 14y ago
  Yup, as the deleted poster explained, I just used stomach to describe the general area. Belly would perhaps have been more precise. I try my best but I am a foreigner, and that has its price (I suck at commas as well).
ajross 14y ago
What a repulsive reaction. This is how babies are made (albeit not with the "stomach", sigh...). Your mother looked like that too, and might very well have a few shots like this in a flip book somewhere waiting to horrify you. And what's wrong with "staging" a photo? Pregnancy is a pretty big deal, some people feel it's worth celebrating. I don't see anything wrong there at all. Good job. I came to this thread ready to crucify this woman and her company based on their unbelievably bad design decision. Now I feel like I need to defend her from sexist creeps...
- MrJagil 14y ago
  Oy, I should have known better :) I know how pregnancy works, and I'm not repulsed by that in and of itself at all. My younger brother was born at home so I have experienced it quite closely. Further, I hope to have several children myself one day, being present at their birth and all that follows. The biggest fear in my life, and i mean that with every cell in my body, is that this wont be realized for one reason or another. I'm sorry if I offended you guys, especially the poster (I see why you picked the link, and it's totally fine with me). I know how this seems like another excellent example of "HN going downhill with rudeness". To clarify my post: The article seems entirely lacking of substance with fluffy self-helpy answers, with no point but for her to needlessly glorify her pregnancy. Further, it fits with a recent fad, by "helping" you making that old-school-biological-baggage of yours fit with your fast paced modern lifestyle, a subject I really do not appreciate as the articles regarding it are, as the piece in question examplifies, usually just fluff for pageviews. "How to cook excellently in 3 min", "How to raise a family and be a CEO" etc... Another issue was with the aesthetics: http://www.being-a-broad.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/6_61_main.jpg http://www.being-a-broad.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/6_61... It seems absolutely awkward, especially if it was made for humorous purposes as that is, to me, unclear. My point regarding self esteem, stems from the third photo. There is no reason for you as pregnant woman to wear a bellyshirt, unless you're desperately attempting to call attention to yourself. I feel it does it overly so, which I trace to some insecurity in other areas of life. When I see stereotypical behaviour like that, i have a need to call it out. Perhaps to feel superior and establish my dominance or whatever.... (Of course she could be wearing it because the photografer asked for it. For the staging part. To me, it looks unnatural and stupid if that is the case, leading back to the aesthetics part) I thought of deleting my post, as I did not want to make anyones day worse but this is indirectly a discussion about me, and, as such, an opportunity for me to learn more about myself, how i should improve. Social life hacking if you will. Please flag the post, if you feel it is the right thing to do, though. Sorry everyone, at least I sparked some discussion, making up for the poor form through this post i hope.
luchak 14y ago
What the hell? I clicked through and I have no idea why you are so disgusted. As far as I can tell: * This is on a site for expatriate women in Japan. * This page belongs to their monthly series of profiles on various women living in Japan. * A substantial part of her profile discusses how being pregnant and taking maternity leave affected her experiences at work. * Nobody made you read it. The pregnancy focus seems entirely relevant to me. And, come on, it's a major life event. Why shouldn't she be allowed to be excited about it?

by MrJagil 14y ago

UnoriginalGuy 14y ago

Sorry. I only linked that because it is the first thing that came up in my google results and offers a fairly credible level of "proof" (since it has her name, photo, and the company's name). If she had something more professional I would have linked that and will happily edit my post with something like a LinkedIn profile or similar. I wasn't trying to embarrass or show up their spokesman, she just Tweeted from a non-company twitter account and frankly she could have been "anyone." So I wanted to verify that this person could speak for that company and share my findings.

SnydenBitchy 14y ago

Good for you, I guess?

crntaylor 14y ago

You're aware that pregnancy doesn't normally involve the stomach, right?

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- ajross 14y ago
  I think the jab was more about making a deliberately inflammatory statement like that, on a complete tangent to the discussion, based on what seems to be a clear distaste of the whole concept of pregnancy, and then misidentifying the organ involved. Yes, you can get away with calling a uterus a "stomach" in some contexts. If you're going to flame about it, get it right.
MrJagil 14y ago
Yup, as the deleted poster explained, I just used stomach to describe the general area. Belly would perhaps have been more precise. I try my best but I am a foreigner, and that has its price (I suck at commas as well).

ajross 14y ago

What a repulsive reaction. This is how babies are made (albeit not with the "stomach", sigh...). Your mother looked like that too, and might very well have a few shots like this in a flip book somewhere waiting to horrify you. And what's wrong with "staging" a photo? Pregnancy is a pretty big deal, some people feel it's worth celebrating. I don't see anything wrong there at all. Good job. I came to this thread ready to crucify this woman and her company based on their unbelievably bad design decision. Now I feel like I need to defend her from sexist creeps...

MrJagil 14y ago
Oy, I should have known better :) I know how pregnancy works, and I'm not repulsed by that in and of itself at all. My younger brother was born at home so I have experienced it quite closely. Further, I hope to have several children myself one day, being present at their birth and all that follows. The biggest fear in my life, and i mean that with every cell in my body, is that this wont be realized for one reason or another. I'm sorry if I offended you guys, especially the poster (I see why you picked the link, and it's totally fine with me). I know how this seems like another excellent example of "HN going downhill with rudeness". To clarify my post: The article seems entirely lacking of substance with fluffy self-helpy answers, with no point but for her to needlessly glorify her pregnancy. Further, it fits with a recent fad, by "helping" you making that old-school-biological-baggage of yours fit with your fast paced modern lifestyle, a subject I really do not appreciate as the articles regarding it are, as the piece in question examplifies, usually just fluff for pageviews. "How to cook excellently in 3 min", "How to raise a family and be a CEO" etc... Another issue was with the aesthetics: http://www.being-a-broad.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/6_61_main.jpg http://www.being-a-broad.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/10/6_61... It seems absolutely awkward, especially if it was made for humorous purposes as that is, to me, unclear. My point regarding self esteem, stems from the third photo. There is no reason for you as pregnant woman to wear a bellyshirt, unless you're desperately attempting to call attention to yourself. I feel it does it overly so, which I trace to some insecurity in other areas of life. When I see stereotypical behaviour like that, i have a need to call it out. Perhaps to feel superior and establish my dominance or whatever.... (Of course she could be wearing it because the photografer asked for it. For the staging part. To me, it looks unnatural and stupid if that is the case, leading back to the aesthetics part) I thought of deleting my post, as I did not want to make anyones day worse but this is indirectly a discussion about me, and, as such, an opportunity for me to learn more about myself, how i should improve. Social life hacking if you will. Please flag the post, if you feel it is the right thing to do, though. Sorry everyone, at least I sparked some discussion, making up for the poor form through this post i hope.

luchak 14y ago

What the hell? I clicked through and I have no idea why you are so disgusted. As far as I can tell: * This is on a site for expatriate women in Japan. * This page belongs to their monthly series of profiles on various women living in Japan. * A substantial part of her profile discusses how being pregnant and taking maternity leave affected her experiences at work. * Nobody made you read it. The pregnancy focus seems entirely relevant to me. And, come on, it's a major life event. Why shouldn't she be allowed to be excited about it?