No worries, I didn’t get that sense. I just think most people would probably felt the need to defend themselves (and I did, albeit briefly, before reconsidering

No worries, I didn’t get that sense. I just think most people would probably felt the need to defend themselves (and I did, albeit briefly, before reconsidering what you were saying, which, like I mentioned, I agree with). Thanks for the references, I wasn’t aware of the other version of NPD. I haven’t read the Courage to be Disliked but I’ll check it out.