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> great deal of our identity into what we do [...] establish our identity [...] taking away their national identity [...] re-center your sense of identity away
by throwaway0048f4 6mo ago
> great deal of our identity into what we do [...] establish our identity [...] taking away their national identity [...] re-center your sense of identity away from work
This obsession with "identity" (and its counterpart in the Bay Area, "prestige") is so utterly bizarre to me. I was fortunate to end up in relatively well-paying jobs at well-known tech companies, but I told my partner if someone offered me $900k per year to scrub toilets (with good work life balance and job stability), I'd happily switch to doing that instead.
I do feel like this identity-based perspective has some strong cultural influences. Certain regions of the world or U.S. seem to care a lot more about peer-perception than others. I grew up in an area of the U.S. that might be considered "working class oriented" and no one cared about credentials. The first thought after getting laid off or fired certainly would not be "what does this say about me?"
- contraposit 6mo ago> Certain regions of the world or U.S. seem to care a lot more about peer-perception than others. This wasn't true even for US few decades ago. Jerry Seinfeld - MONEY became EVERYTHING https://www.youtube.com/shorts/7BgwUL_X75Y https://www.youtube.com/shorts/7BgwUL_X75Y
- awesomeMilou 6mo agoI don't know, maybe it's the absolute fucking _insane_ social inequality that is present around the globe and in the world. Also isn't Jerry Seinfeld a billionaire? Completely detached from reality.