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Glad you liked the graphs. They're my favourite part. I looked into The Now Habit, and added it to my reading list. Great addition, thanks! Trying to rephrase
by maxvij 6mo ago
Glad you liked the graphs. They're my favourite part.
I looked into The Now Habit, and added it to my reading list. Great addition, thanks! Trying to rephrase 'I have to' to 'I choose to' is already something I try, but in the end, this only lands when you've genuinely internalised it - if you don't truly believe you're choosing it, it doesn't really work (at least for me). As you say, it's a delusion.
Essentially it's affect labelling in disguise, as mentioned in the article.