> If you are the one to follow up, they'd join you. I get this. I don't want to be imposing myself, and I want to give the person an out if they don't want to

> If you are the one to follow up, they'd join you. I get this. I don't want to be imposing myself, and I want to give the person an out if they don't want to meet me. But I also want them to know that I would be up for having a coffee.