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I fully agree with this sentiment. I set a high standard for my punctuality but I don't care if you're late. I just silently judge you.
by Mick-Jogger 6mo ago
I fully agree with this sentiment. I set a high standard for my punctuality but I don't care if you're late.
I just silently judge you.
- inanutshellus 6mo ago"I don't care I just silently judge you" ... kinda sounds like you care. ;)
- eigenspace 6mo ago"I don't care if you're late" versus "I just silently judge you". Which one is it?
- Mick-Jogger 6mo agoI don't show you that I care would probably be more accurate.
- eigenspace 6mo agoAlways a helpful and productive approach to solving interpersonal problems.
- shermantanktop 6mo agoMe caring doesn’t need to be a problem for others. Should we all shout about our minor preferences and gripes all the time? There are people like that, and they are exhausting. It’s essentially a selfish use of a communal good, which is the shared environment. There’s a limit to silent annoyance, of course. But my officemate noisily ate a smelly egg breakfast every day and I just bided my time until I could move.
- saltcured 6mo agoPerhaps he's a German expat who has absorbed the Parisian attitude Watch me not care
- stzsch 6mo agoNot OP but my general approach is similar: "I see it as wrong but do not feel entitled to impose my standards on others".
- finaard 6mo agoUnless I care about the meeting it gives me an easy way out. More than 5 minutes late in that case is "let's try it again another time"