> like obv, if someone is being this rude to me, all i can do is tell him to come suck my dick Thaty's far from the only option there, however tempting it is.

> like obv, if someone is being this rude to me, all i can do is tell him to come suck my dick Thaty's far from the only option there, however tempting it is. > why would i be nice to him? Because being nice to people is how you get things you want. > what else could I have done at this point You could've promised to take the site down, which both functions as a gesture of good will and to calm the deans nerves. At that point you'd probably be in a much better position to start a conversation on how you could make the site in a way the dean is comfortable with.