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honestly, i do not get the hurting people thing. like ok, i do get it, but i just feel like people should be more thick skinned in general, people have said a l

honestly, i do not get the hurting people thing. like ok, i do get it, but i just feel like people should be more thick skinned in general, people have said a lot of stuff about me too... but i just dont care. and like ok, if you do care, just report the post, i would have taken it down. why do you need to call the police and tell the dean to kick me out? that's just very malicious. and i mean i kind of get why people were writing bad stuff about people like these

M95D 7mo ago
Hurting with words via live speech is one thing. A website amplifies it and makes it permanent. When people say stuff, only other people around them hear, and even then it can be denied. When people write things online, what they write is public for everyone to read, and it's permanent, forever screenshotted and reposted.
kennywinker 7mo ago
The irony is this blog post is a massive self-own. Without a doubt, for the rest of your life some percentage of people you interact with will google you and read this post and close a door you wanted to go thru in your face. But at least it was your own choice, and it’s based on truth. For everyone who got slandered on your site it wasn’t their choice, and it may not even be true.
- 1whizkid1 7mo ago
  And door that would be closed because of this blog is not one i would ever want to get in anyways.
  - kennywinker 7mo ago
    We’ll see.
pavel_lishin 7mo ago
> if you do care, just report the post, i would have taken it down. But people explicitly asked you to take things down, and you refused from the very start.
- 1whizkid1 7mo ago
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croes 7mo ago
So you basically created a cyberbully site and your excuse is people should be more thick skinned. Did it ever occur to you that you are the one having a problem? Maybe you have a lack of empathy or sympathy.
jjulius 7mo ago
They wouldn't need to report it if you hadn't put their names there without permission. Further, you signed them up to be notified of comments without their permission. Doesn't matter what people wrote about them, the simple fact is that you did that to them with their data. That you can't grasp the concept of crossing private boundaries like that is disturbing. Stop laughing about this and start looking inward.
janalsncm 7mo ago
I don’t know if you will read this, but if you do maybe I can suggest a rule of thumb for posting things under your name publicly. You should assume that people don’t know you, and they will not give you the benefit of the doubt. So it is in your best interest to make your public image as unimpeachable as possible. If the person looking at your blog post is a potential employer, they will not spend a long time weighing pros and cons of your employment. They will pass you over and tell you nothing.
kgeist 7mo ago
>just report the post, i would have taken it down Last time someone asked to take down a post, you said "bitch come suck my dick" according to your own blog.
- 1whizkid1 7mo ago
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47282847 7mo ago
> people have said a lot of stuff about me too... but i just dont care. Hurt people hurt people. You sure seem to have bottled up your own pain with anger weakly disguised as eagerness. I hope you eventually realize you cannot gain the love of your father by “success”. It’s not your fault; he is too traumatized. Nobody else needs to suffer (“develop a thick skin” after repeat bullying which you first experienced and then enabled) just because you had to; it won’t fix your pain, it’ll only make it worse.

M95D 7mo ago

Hurting with words via live speech is one thing. A website amplifies it and makes it permanent. When people say stuff, only other people around them hear, and even then it can be denied. When people write things online, what they write is public for everyone to read, and it's permanent, forever screenshotted and reposted.

kennywinker 7mo ago

The irony is this blog post is a massive self-own. Without a doubt, for the rest of your life some percentage of people you interact with will google you and read this post and close a door you wanted to go thru in your face. But at least it was your own choice, and it’s based on truth. For everyone who got slandered on your site it wasn’t their choice, and it may not even be true.

1whizkid1 7mo ago
And door that would be closed because of this blog is not one i would ever want to get in anyways.
- kennywinker 7mo ago
  We’ll see.

pavel_lishin 7mo ago

> if you do care, just report the post, i would have taken it down. But people explicitly asked you to take things down, and you refused from the very start.

1whizkid1 7mo ago
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croes 7mo ago

So you basically created a cyberbully site and your excuse is people should be more thick skinned. Did it ever occur to you that you are the one having a problem? Maybe you have a lack of empathy or sympathy.

jjulius 7mo ago

They wouldn't need to report it if you hadn't put their names there without permission. Further, you signed them up to be notified of comments without their permission. Doesn't matter what people wrote about them, the simple fact is that you did that to them with their data. That you can't grasp the concept of crossing private boundaries like that is disturbing. Stop laughing about this and start looking inward.

janalsncm 7mo ago

I don’t know if you will read this, but if you do maybe I can suggest a rule of thumb for posting things under your name publicly. You should assume that people don’t know you, and they will not give you the benefit of the doubt. So it is in your best interest to make your public image as unimpeachable as possible. If the person looking at your blog post is a potential employer, they will not spend a long time weighing pros and cons of your employment. They will pass you over and tell you nothing.

kgeist 7mo ago

>just report the post, i would have taken it down Last time someone asked to take down a post, you said "bitch come suck my dick" according to your own blog.

1whizkid1 7mo ago
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47282847 7mo ago

> people have said a lot of stuff about me too... but i just dont care. Hurt people hurt people. You sure seem to have bottled up your own pain with anger weakly disguised as eagerness. I hope you eventually realize you cannot gain the love of your father by “success”. It’s not your fault; he is too traumatized. Nobody else needs to suffer (“develop a thick skin” after repeat bullying which you first experienced and then enabled) just because you had to; it won’t fix your pain, it’ll only make it worse.