I can imagine these two inverse outrages being deployed almost simultaneously: * "When you call that parenting, you give unearned credit to men who aren't cont

I can imagine these two inverse outrages being deployed almost simultaneously: * "When you call that parenting, you give unearned credit to men who aren't contributing, call it mothering." * "When you call that mothering, you're letting men escape their duty to contribute, call it parenting." Some sort of... prescriptive versus descriptive paradox, I bet it can be found in other contexts too.