133k for a family of 3 is effectively poverty wages in NYC or SF. In less HCOL areas it is getting by, but possibly never owning a house. Hardly the upper mid

133k for a family of 3 is effectively poverty wages in NYC or SF. In less HCOL areas it is getting by, but possibly never owning a house. Hardly the upper middle class lifestyle one imagines being lived by doctors, lawyers, etc in times past.