Doesn't sound like a close friend to me. If I tell them what I really think they may not be a friend? Close may not mean what you think it means. The challen

Doesn't sound like a close friend to me. If I tell them what I really think they may not be a friend? Close may not mean what you think it means. The challenge is that these social choices have a strong stratification effect and those of us who can transit the cultures are statistically rare.