That is pretty nasty of them and horribly sexist. However, you were not daddy day care, you were being a parent. if you were a woman would you call it mummy-da

That is pretty nasty of them and horribly sexist. However, you were not daddy day care, you were being a parent. if you were a woman would you call it mummy-day-care? On top of that, is looking after your child a substitute for day care rather than vice-versa?