Glad to hear you came out alright. I’ll offer this argument: Society aggressively tells overweight people that it is bad to be overweight, in no uncertain term

Glad to hear you came out alright. I’ll offer this argument: Society aggressively tells overweight people that it is bad to be overweight, in no uncertain terms, and with significant repercussions. Yet overweight people exist. Hence, the strategy of shaming people until they lose weight does not work in the general or average case.