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I’m sure they know, pointing it out doesn’t solve anything. > Politely watching them die before you is maybe comfortable, but pretty messed up. I disagree. It
by pixelatedindex 7mo ago
I’m sure they know, pointing it out doesn’t solve anything.
> Politely watching them die before you is maybe comfortable, but pretty messed up.
I disagree. It’s their choice, and they should be free to do what they want and not be criticized. In fact it’s not comfortable and sometimes I do want to say something but that’s not very kind.
- BurningFrog 7mo agoEveryone should be free to do what they want. This includes criticizing others!
- pixelatedindex 7mo agoFair argument, but I don’t think criticizing their weight benefits either party. Unless you’re a super close friend and you do it occasionally as a reminder when they are going off the rails. My family constantly says I’m on the bigger side - but does it help? Absolutely not. Does it hurt? A little bit, at least. Then they shame you for “going on a diet”, but also asks why you don’t eat. I don’t need others to pile their opinions on top of it.