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> It helps if you phrase the question openly, not obviously fishing for a yes-or-no answer. Or, if you have to ask for a yes-or-no question, make it sound like
by GCUMstlyHarmls 7mo ago
> It helps if you phrase the question openly, not obviously fishing for a yes-or-no answer. Or, if you have to ask for a yes-or-no question, make it sound like you're obviously expecting the answer that's actually less likely,
I do this all the time and hate that I have to do it, with the additional "do not yes-man me, be critical."
- MadxX79 7mo agoGreat, now I have two answers and still no clue which one is the right one.
- nxpnsv 7mo agoNow get a third opinion, and marvel at all the thinking that you have accomplished
- MadxX79 7mo agoIn my experience the last answer it gives is usually the right one
- nxpnsv 7mo agoAh, so the trick is to figure out which one will be the last answer. The halting problem....
- paulhebert 7mo agoIt’s always the last place you look
- signatoremo 7mo agoAny difference that asking two humans?
- MadxX79 7mo agoYeah, enormously. People will hedge depending on how sure they are about something. They might also have credentials in whatever you ask them, if you get legal advice from a lawyer, that can be judged to be more reliable than from a lay person. Relationships with real people are pretty cool actually. If you talk to people that you have a longer relationship with, you might also be able to judge their areas of expertise and how prone to bullshitting they are.