> I do. I don't think an elderly person who lives in a different country is actually a good guide to modern practice. Also, I was asking about Japan. I believ

> I do. I don't think an elderly person who lives in a different country is actually a good guide to modern practice. Also, I was asking about Japan. I believed my Chinese teacher (in China). > For context - it's a way of saying "death to your family" or something akin to that. Nothing so specific. It is felt to resemble something you'd see at a funeral.