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I've seen those too. I was going to say that I've seen people put the bowl to their mouth and shovel food in with chopsticks, but now that I come to think about

I've seen those too. I was going to say that I've seen people put the bowl to their mouth and shovel food in with chopsticks, but now that I come to think about it that might well actually be from the series Tokyo Diner and Takeshi Kitano films, and may be deliberately uncouth characterisations...

wahnfrieden 7mo ago
Bringing the bowl close to your mouth and picking food up from it is proper. Pushing it from the bowl into your mouth is impolite but common.
- Umofomia 7mo ago
  I'm under the impression this is a Chinese vs. Japanese difference. Shoveling food into your mouth is perfectly acceptable in Chinese etiquette but discouraged in Japanese. Accordingly the Japanese cook their rice to clump together so it's easier to pick up using your chopsticks so that you don't have to resort to shoveling.
  - Gigachad 7mo ago
    Both do, but the moment any sauce gets on the rice it's impossible to pick up with chopsticks.
  - kleton 7mo ago
    A lot of culture was lost in the Cultural Revolution
- JKCalhoun 7mo ago
  I thought it was okay to shovel noodles, but have not heard it was okay for rice.
  - thaumasiotes 7mo ago
    I haven't been specifically informed as to either question, but I find that idea surprising, since noodles are infinitely easier to pick up with chopsticks than rice is.
    - JKCalhoun 7mo ago
      Maybe it's the "slurp" part that is (surprisingly) okay in Japan.
- derefr 7mo ago
  So what are you expected to do with the last few sauce-soaked grains of rice that would at best be able to be plucked grain by grain from the bowl, and even then would likely slip from between the tips of the chopsticks? Just leave them in the bowl?
  - anotheryou 7mo ago
    I vaguely remember something about not finishing completely to acknowledge there was enough
    - t-3 7mo ago
      I've heard that clearing the table of food would be considered rude in China, as it means you didn't get enough to eat, almost exactly opposite to the only food-related rule I was ever taught growing in the US - never waste food or serve yourself more than you can eat. That's probably just a "my family" thing though. I get the impression that even saving leftovers is rare among Americans these days.
      - Detrytus 7mo ago
        Which is funny, because the serving sizes in US restaurants are so big that no human being can be expected to eat it all.
      - ted_dunning 7mo ago
        There are still contradictory customs around this enough that it is standard practice to warn exchange students from Europe that if they finish absolutely everything on their plate that this is a signal in many American homes that you should be served more. This can lead to some real discomfort as the student tries to eat everything they are given which leads to being given more and more. So at the same time it is considered poor taste to take more than you can eat, it is also considered poor form to offer a guest anything less than more than they can eat. This also shows up when people rate restaurants by the serving size.
  - jstanley 7mo ago

wahnfrieden 7mo ago

Bringing the bowl close to your mouth and picking food up from it is proper. Pushing it from the bowl into your mouth is impolite but common.

Umofomia 7mo ago
I'm under the impression this is a Chinese vs. Japanese difference. Shoveling food into your mouth is perfectly acceptable in Chinese etiquette but discouraged in Japanese. Accordingly the Japanese cook their rice to clump together so it's easier to pick up using your chopsticks so that you don't have to resort to shoveling.
- Gigachad 7mo ago
  Both do, but the moment any sauce gets on the rice it's impossible to pick up with chopsticks.
- kleton 7mo ago
  A lot of culture was lost in the Cultural Revolution
JKCalhoun 7mo ago
I thought it was okay to shovel noodles, but have not heard it was okay for rice.
- thaumasiotes 7mo ago
  I haven't been specifically informed as to either question, but I find that idea surprising, since noodles are infinitely easier to pick up with chopsticks than rice is.
  - JKCalhoun 7mo ago
    Maybe it's the "slurp" part that is (surprisingly) okay in Japan.
derefr 7mo ago
So what are you expected to do with the last few sauce-soaked grains of rice that would at best be able to be plucked grain by grain from the bowl, and even then would likely slip from between the tips of the chopsticks? Just leave them in the bowl?
- anotheryou 7mo ago
  I vaguely remember something about not finishing completely to acknowledge there was enough
  - t-3 7mo ago
    I've heard that clearing the table of food would be considered rude in China, as it means you didn't get enough to eat, almost exactly opposite to the only food-related rule I was ever taught growing in the US - never waste food or serve yourself more than you can eat. That's probably just a "my family" thing though. I get the impression that even saving leftovers is rare among Americans these days.
    - Detrytus 7mo ago
      Which is funny, because the serving sizes in US restaurants are so big that no human being can be expected to eat it all.
    - ted_dunning 7mo ago
      There are still contradictory customs around this enough that it is standard practice to warn exchange students from Europe that if they finish absolutely everything on their plate that this is a signal in many American homes that you should be served more. This can lead to some real discomfort as the student tries to eat everything they are given which leads to being given more and more. So at the same time it is considered poor taste to take more than you can eat, it is also considered poor form to offer a guest anything less than more than they can eat. This also shows up when people rate restaurants by the serving size.
- jstanley 7mo ago