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it's like western etiquette: upper class, fine dining traditional practices are not what you'll see everyday even among polite society. the spectrum of behavior
by wahnfrieden 7mo ago
it's like western etiquette: upper class, fine dining traditional practices are not what you'll see everyday even among polite society. the spectrum of behaviors will also depend on one's company.
- fc417fc802 7mo agoI assume this must be the case here because I'm familiar with a lot of different etiquette contexts in the US and I have the impression that Japan has far more of that sort of thing than we do. Off the top of my head there are (at minimum) the way we were expected to eat in front of my grandparents, a more "regular" dinner with the extended family, a small gathering at a tex mex joint or chain restaurant or whatever, a fast food joint, and whatever slovenly things I do while sitting on my couch in private. Anyone from a particularly wealthy family can probably add an additional couple contexts on the high end. Every single one of those situations has slightly different "rules" for what's acceptable.
- throwup238 7mo agoAnd then there’s my favorite, the southern seafood boil etiquette.
- wahnfrieden 7mo agoWe have a lot of dining etiquette too if you look into it. But it’s mostly forgotten and irrelevant high class behavior.
- nvader 7mo agoYep. Two words: _grape scissors_
- defrost 7mo agoLook here, Bridgerton: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNegQyn-4N8 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNegQyn-4N8