"you catch more flies with honey than vinegar." The fun part about that truism is that when actually tried. You find out the flies love vinager, Far more than

"you catch more flies with honey than vinegar." The fun part about that truism is that when actually tried. You find out the flies love vinager, Far more than honey, something about the smell? It could be said the other way around, which is also true, the best way to get someone to respond is not a well structured question but by being wrong.