> destroy someone for a mistake "Oops, you told me not to do this, and I volunteered to agree to these stricter standards yet I flagrantly disregarded them, pl

> destroy someone for a mistake "Oops, you told me not to do this, and I volunteered to agree to these stricter standards yet I flagrantly disregarded them, please forgive me" doesn't seem like something you just accidentally do, it's a conscious choice.