Do you have a wife / kids? If so how do you "teach" them this? My point being that it might be a failure to you but not them, some people don't want it. This

Do you have a wife / kids? If so how do you "teach" them this? My point being that it might be a failure to you but not them, some people don't want it. This is my struggle, how to get the automation to do what I want without affecting everyone else equally. (And vise versa)