I gotta say, this isn't really selling me on the idea: > I am overwhelmed with insecurity. “I’m so insecure,” I say. “I wanna kill that girl.” I contort my fac

I gotta say, this isn't really selling me on the idea: > I am overwhelmed with insecurity. “I’m so insecure,” I say. “I wanna kill that girl.” I contort my face into a grimace. “No, you’re mine, she’s gotta get away. Do you think she’s better than me? Oh god.” The fear washes over me, and my partner simply holds me in it, not trying to fix it. He just stays with me as I go through it. “Ahhhh,” I say. He says something like “Yeah, it seems really scary.” I agree. It is really scary! “I’m scared I’m gonna lose you forever,” I say. “That’s intense,” he says, stroking my hair.