My account is literally 4 years old and I'm not even halfway there. How do you do it? And I'm trying to limit myself from saying unwanted things like criticiz

My account is literally 4 years old and I'm not even halfway there. How do you do it? And I'm trying to limit myself from saying unwanted things like criticizing ** or saying something nice about **. (Self censoring to avoid downvotes). Maybe I should be more active.