4 ms·
> but an interruption can be a lot less disruptive compared to getting nerd sniped. Theoretically yes. Practically, folks who avoid small talk deliberately usu
by groby_b 7mo ago
> but an interruption can be a lot less disruptive compared to getting nerd sniped.
Theoretically yes. Practically, folks who avoid small talk deliberately usually have enough awareness to not interrupt unless they need your time. But yes, directness without judgment is bad.
Ironically, the author fails to apply that judgment themselves and wastes a ton of words on unnecessary and/or bad examples.
And, more importantly, they miss the core point of Crocker's rule: Invoking it doesn't mean you get to tell other people how to communicate. You just tell them they're not responsible for your emotional/mental state.
If those extra details upset OP, maybe they lack the maturity to invoke that rule.
- IanCal 7mo ago> Practically, folks who avoid small talk deliberately usually have enough awareness to not interrupt unless they need your time. It’s not whether you need my time it’s where it falls in my priorities which you do not know. By essentially not asking they will get it wrong more, in both directions.
- groby_b 7mo agoSure. And so it depends on how many people you need to talk to on a daily basis, and how often the interruption is worth your time. It's recall vs. precision in an org-shaped trenchcoat.