There's a fine line between someone feeling "shitty" and groupthink / often naive & distant. A friend of mine says that anytime a person refers to him as "Afri

There's a fine line between someone feeling "shitty" and groupthink / often naive & distant. A friend of mine says that anytime a person refers to him as "African-American" he sees them as totally distant and that "they usually don't talk to black people" - so I can see this working both ways. Political correctness (what the 'polis' sees as correct) isn't always what those who may 'feel shitty' think is correct - so I share her feelings.