My wife tried early teaching and cloth diapers with the first one, but with the second one we just use regular diapers. IMO early toilet training is just wishf

My wife tried early teaching and cloth diapers with the first one, but with the second one we just use regular diapers. IMO early toilet training is just wishful thinking combined with confirmation bias. If you are trying it and it is going hard... just don't, you are not doing anything wrong, you've been just misled. Just wait until your child can consistently follow instructions and does so willingly for important matters. Otherwise the result is as expected.