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That does strike me as pretty early but hey, I’m sure it happened and it still happens! But I do agree with the core thesis that people seem to be waiting a ver
by Forgeties79 8mo ago
That does strike me as pretty early but hey, I’m sure it happened and it still happens! But I do agree with the core thesis that people seem to be waiting a very long time. How long is “too long“ is hard to determine though if you ask me. Potty training is not just about when your kid is ready, it’s also about when the parents have capacity to handle it because frankly it is an incredibly intensive, involved, messy process that usually takes several days if not weeks. It also usually has setbacks and even full resets.
One of my kids we started at 18 months and he almost got it but we started to see serious regression and had to pull back. We then tried again a few months later and he was good to go. I think it is very reasonable to have your kid potty trained by 2 for most people, but that is mostly based off my experience and that of my peers, not some sort of data driven observation or something.
Also, and this may seem obvious to folks but it’s worth mentioning, it’s of course easier to potty train your kid the older they are. So some people know that they could do it sooner but decide that it’s worth just waiting a little longer so that the process is easier. That’s valid!
- jwrallie 8mo agoI had almost the same experience, with around 18 months it felt possible but ultimately it was frustrating for everyone so we waited more, a few months later we tried again and it went smoothly. The main factor was she could understand what we were doing much better just because she understood more words. I think 2 years is a sweet spot.
- bombcar 8mo agoA big part of it is modern diapers keep them so dry unless they're absolutely soaked that the feedback loop of "have to go" and "now I'm uncomfortably wet" is snapped. The difference between modern "swaddlers" and "training pants" is basically the absorbance.