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It's the software developers, it's the government's, it's anyone's responsibility but mine to parent my kids!

• kelseyfrog 7mo ago
  How many kids do you have?
  • pibaker 7mo ago
    The average family size has never been smaller in the history of humanity, and yet only now do people feel so entitled to ask others not even in the same family to bear the responsibility of raising their children. I wonder why.
  • hellojesus 7mo ago
    Two. It's trivial to set up mac-based allowlists on your router as well as domain allowlists. Use separate networks for devices kids have. Install root certs and log their activity to an llm to look for suspicious sites or content. Enroll their mobile devices in device management. We have all the solutions necessary for this. Why implement something that gives away pii to everyone all the time for free?
    • kelseyfrog 7mo ago
      The only problem? It's not trivial. The overwhelming majority of people don't have the technical literacy to do the same. That's why this idea is dead on arrival. "They should" is not a viable response. This is a public health problem and people are legitimately saying the equivalent of, "just don't get sick."
      • hellojesus 7mo ago
        I don't understand. Everything I mentioned one can learn with a little searching online in an evening. Do people really not have the self reflection necessary to ask themselves how they can go about solving a problem they have?
        • kelseyfrog 7mo ago
          Yes. Regular everyday people are not capable of doing this due to tech illiteracy. People are not saying to themselves, "I could figure this out and I'm choosing not to." They don't even know it exists. Even if they did know local filtering exists, it wouldn't be effective. We have influenze vaccines and still, with their own lives on the line, hundreds of thousands of people die from the flu. The inconvenience is showing up at a Walgreens or CVS. They can't do it. We're expecting folks to understand mac and domain based allow lists? Let me ask you this, if you asked your parents how they would secure their network for their grandchildren, that they would accomplish this solution on their own?
          • hellojesus 7mo ago
            I would expect them to tell me to do it. But also I expect to have device management on my children's devices such that if their traffic isn't proxied through my proxy, they won't be able to send or receive packets. The kids could use the grandparents' computers. They could also just stick a USB with Ubuntu on it and live boot to get around the proxy restrictions unless the bios is locked. I expect kids to get around the controls. That's how they'll learn. I don't expect to have to descend into full surveillance because Jimmy can't be bothered to solve his own problems.
            • kelseyfrog 7mo ago
              It sounds like you're volunteering to secure everyone else's devices because that's how you solved the problem of grandparents not knowing how to do it themselves.
              • hellojesus 7mo ago
                I'm arguing in good faith. My point was that some people will ask those that are tech literate. Some people can hire people that are tech literate. I see no point in introducing this legislation, because the folks that can't take the time to meet their goals under the current norms will fail to secure the trivial bypasses that will allow kids to circumvent these controls. But what may happen is those folks that are arguing for this legislation will argue for fully secure, remote attlestation to prove age for all devices that try to connect to the internet via an isp or some gov auth factory because the current, dumb law isn't good enough. This is a very slippery slope. The gov, private orgs all salivate at the possibility of that data and fully deanonymizing the internet. That is a world that is unacceptable. It would be the full loss of general computing. What a dystopia. And this is step one in that direction.
• bdangubic 7mo ago
  Bingo! Parents can be bothered with meaningless chores with all the other responsibilities they have