It's interesting, because while having that skill is helpful I think part of the issue a lot of people have is an overturned sense for it - they will be worried

It's interesting, because while having that skill is helpful I think part of the issue a lot of people have is an overturned sense for it - they will be worried they are getting judged for wasting their counterparts time. It's good to have, but don't let not having it (yet) stop you!