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+1 In any major city it's probably 90% chance they're either a crook trying to scam you out of something or mentally not quite right. The remaining 10% will be

+1 In any major city it's probably 90% chance they're either a crook trying to scam you out of something or mentally not quite right. The remaining 10% will be tourists or people from outside of the major city.

hluska 8mo ago
Or they have social skills?
- watwut 8mo ago
  If they cone accross as mwntally ill, they dont have social skill. Per definition. Scamming crools frequently do have good social skills, but of course there is that risk of being scammed if you talk to them.
- sieep 8mo ago
  I understand what both of you are saying, I lived in areas where if someone is talking to you on the street theres a high chance theyre asking you for something, so you learn to just kinda block all of it out. Now that I moved to a smaller town, I find myself talking to strangers much more frequently.
majormajor 8mo ago
You're confusing "asking people for something" with "talking to people." Nobody wants randos coming up to them and asking for something. Most people would be less lonely if everyone had more practice at making non-transactional conversation. Actively avoiding conversation still qualifies as "weirdo" behavior to most people.
- rzzzt 8mo ago
  "Someday - and that day may never come" - they will be asking for something. Now you are on talking terms and it will be harder to refuse the ask, compared to the request of a complete stranger.
nzeid 8mo ago
On public transit or a street, maybe. But only maybe. Are you willfully ignoring people at bars, night clubs, supermarkets, etc? It's obvious 99% of the time whether or not the conversation is in the wrong place and wrong time.
- johnnyanmac 8mo ago
  bars and clubs are specific venues for social interactions. Supermarkets are a toss up. Most people are there to get their food and get out.
barbs 8mo ago
In my experience that's not true at all, but I think a lot of people have that perception, which is sad.
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haritha-j 8mo ago
This is sad but not inconsistent with my experience. Though I think 10% is actually the people who genuinely want to have a nice conversation. and I think that worth putting up witrh the rest 90% for.

hluska 8mo ago

Or they have social skills?

watwut 8mo ago
If they cone accross as mwntally ill, they dont have social skill. Per definition. Scamming crools frequently do have good social skills, but of course there is that risk of being scammed if you talk to them.
sieep 8mo ago
I understand what both of you are saying, I lived in areas where if someone is talking to you on the street theres a high chance theyre asking you for something, so you learn to just kinda block all of it out. Now that I moved to a smaller town, I find myself talking to strangers much more frequently.

majormajor 8mo ago

You're confusing "asking people for something" with "talking to people." Nobody wants randos coming up to them and asking for something. Most people would be less lonely if everyone had more practice at making non-transactional conversation. Actively avoiding conversation still qualifies as "weirdo" behavior to most people.

rzzzt 8mo ago
"Someday - and that day may never come" - they will be asking for something. Now you are on talking terms and it will be harder to refuse the ask, compared to the request of a complete stranger.

nzeid 8mo ago

On public transit or a street, maybe. But only maybe. Are you willfully ignoring people at bars, night clubs, supermarkets, etc? It's obvious 99% of the time whether or not the conversation is in the wrong place and wrong time.

johnnyanmac 8mo ago
bars and clubs are specific venues for social interactions. Supermarkets are a toss up. Most people are there to get their food and get out.

barbs 8mo ago

In my experience that's not true at all, but I think a lot of people have that perception, which is sad.

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haritha-j 8mo ago

This is sad but not inconsistent with my experience. Though I think 10% is actually the people who genuinely want to have a nice conversation. and I think that worth putting up witrh the rest 90% for.