"I'm kind of an optimist" Sorry for what you are going through obviously. One thing I have found though in disaster planning is that it pays to be a pessimist.

"I'm kind of an optimist" Sorry for what you are going through obviously. One thing I have found though in disaster planning is that it pays to be a pessimist. While worrying certainly doesn't help once you have a problem to solve doing so in advance helps you anticipate things that you need to take into consideration when planning.