I have to say that I am amazed by the lack of professionalism and common decency. During a tech conference or on a tech list, the only 'insults' should be of a

I have to say that I am amazed by the lack of professionalism and common decency. During a tech conference or on a tech list, the only 'insults' should be of a technical nature. When going to a tech conference, I am not interested in sexist jokes. When I follow a specific tech mailing list, I am not interested in discussions about rape, politics, or whatever. There are other venues to vent whatever opinions you have on such issues. If you want intimacy, there a dating clubs, etc. Not to say that no relationships start at work or during a tech conference (I met my wife through work). But if you are not sure the other side is interested, give it time. Don't act as a predator.