When I feel really grumpy, and I manage to catch myself feeling that way, I find the better thing to do is to tell the person that I am busy and stressed. They

When I feel really grumpy, and I manage to catch myself feeling that way, I find the better thing to do is to tell the person that I am busy and stressed. They are much more likely to leave me alone and treat me with respect later when I handle it that way. Sometimes we all become a steamy kettle, but there are better ways to make friends and influence people.