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Getting into one fight and just leaving over it is pretty foolish. What are you talking about? Of course you should treat everybody well. But that doesn't mean
by jajuuka 8mo ago
Getting into one fight and just leaving over it is pretty foolish.
What are you talking about? Of course you should treat everybody well. But that doesn't mean everyone will treat you well. Of course I've been harassed before. But that's not related to this at all. We're talking about Bazzite where someone got called an idiot once.
You're really reaching now. If you were harassing my partner or children this would be an entirely different conversation. Again, that's not relevant at all. You're just reaching for anything to make this emotional plea. Also slurs? Come on now. We're literally talking about someone getting called an "idiot". Not a slur. Stop stretching the truth.
Your hypothetical was "If you have to repeatedly deal with it, you'd likely leave the space we share or ask someone to make me leave".
Nobody was abused here. Good lord. So THAT'S what set you off. So "just ignore mean words" does mean "let everyone call you slurs all day". It's means what it literally says. Mean words. Mean words are "idiot", "stupid", etc. They are silly and childish insults. They are not harmful words. They are not slurs. They are not harassment. Do you understand what I said now? Because I think your invention of scenarios that didn't happen here is extremely unproductive and is derailing the conversation. Instead of using slogans and extremes, ask questions next time. Can really save you and others some effort.
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- Forgeties79 8mo ago> Getting into one fight and just leaving over it is pretty foolish. > But that doesn't mean everyone will treat you well. I never said either of those statements and I agree they are not worth flipping the table over for. > Your hypothetical was "If you have to repeatedly deal with it, you'd likely leave the space we share or ask someone to make me leave". It’s not hypothetical. It’s what people are claiming he was doing and you were saying people need to just shrug it off. My questions to you were an attempt to establish that there is a line at which someone can say “it’s not just mean words anymore.” More specifically, where you draw the line. You keep trying to describe the situation as one very small slight that happened one time, which does not appear to be accurate. The accusation is a pattern of behavior. If you don’t believe the accusation that is an entirely different story, but if most or all of what is being claimed is true, then he was needlessly hostile and caused problems for multiple people for an extended period of time. He didn’t simply “call someone an idiot once.”
- jajuuka 8mo agoI would be very interested to see this repeated and consistent behavior then. Because all the evidence that keeps getting passed around is someone getting an idiot once. Which seems to clearly vindicate Antheas's claim that the other devs developed a sycophantic group inside the project around them. Groups like that pull this "he was harassing everyone and making everyone quit" story seems to have zero evidence to back it up. Obviously if he was harassing people and forcing them to quit that's a different story, but that does not seem to be the case here unless you take the remaining Bazzite project leaders word for it. This seems more like a case of power hungry project leadership wanting to have an echo chamber in the project. Which is not an uncommon occurrence sadly.
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- Forgeties79 8mo agoGo to the discord server and search “antheas.” Even with its terrible search you’ll find the discussions (and his comments) illuminating. No need to take my word for it. You’ll see complaint after complaint from members of the community.
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