Second this. Maybe also "The Fourth Turning" It is cool to live in a place where everyone questions the roles society might impose on them, but it's too extrem

Second this. Maybe also "The Fourth Turning" It is cool to live in a place where everyone questions the roles society might impose on them, but it's too extreme lately. The cost of community is inconvenience. The price of individuality is loneliness. So much of life is brutally inefficient without networks of trust and reciprocity.