sort of reminds me of telling kids "You're smart!" vs "good work!" success for #1 is because of something innate, while for #2 is hard work. meanwhile failure

sort of reminds me of telling kids "You're smart!" vs "good work!" success for #1 is because of something innate, while for #2 is hard work. meanwhile failure for #1 has no clear path to success, but #2 is more effort.