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> - Younger people are less sensitive to noise, go out more, and generally don't understand how distressful it can be When I was younger I lived in a large sha
by marcus_holmes 9mo ago
> - Younger people are less sensitive to noise, go out more, and generally don't understand how distressful it can be
When I was younger I lived in a large shared house, constant activity and people coming and going, music always playing, I loved it then.
Now I live in a very soundproof apartment, literally never hear anyone else (our neighbours right next door had a party until 4am with loud music, etc. We didn't hear a thing). I love this now.
As I get older I've gotten more and more sensitive to other people's noise. I find people playing bluetooth devices to be acutely, intensely, irritating. I can't just ignore it, it annoys and distracts me too much.
I've become that grumpy guy who asks people to turn their music down or wear headphones (almost always a negative experience for everyone involved). I talk to management at restaurants and pubs and ask them to turn the music down (mixed results on that one). I have taken a table at restaurants and then walked away because the music is too loud.
It is weird, because this is my reaction to the situation, so I'm responsible for it. A city is not a quiet space, and we can't really expect it to be. But at the same time, the lack of consideration for others is shocking. Walking around playing music on speaker is basically saying to everyone "f*ck you, I'm more important than all of you".
- mancerayder 9mo ago>It is weird, because this is my reaction to the situation, so I'm responsible for it. A city is not a quiet space, and we can't really expect it to be. But at the same time, the lack of consideration for others is shocking. Walking around playing music on speaker is basically saying to everyone "f*ck you, I'm more important than all of you". It's the subway/train/restaurant usage of phones to spool Tiktok/IG shorts with the sound on, and other noise, that I find maddeningly annoying. But everything (in the US at least) is very loud, including restaurants. I don't understand why. It's far less likely to happen in W European capitals. As if Americans are extremely loud and love to be engulfed in constant noise. At least, the US and I'd say much of the Caribbean is like this as well. Is it because we're old that we're bothered? Have things gotten worse? Did we or It change?
- marcus_holmes 9mo agogood question. I assume it's me, because it's my reaction. But I could be wrong
- wiseowise 9mo ago> A city is not a quiet space, and we can't really expect it to be. Why? It’s one thing when it is completely silent – that would be absurd –but when it is full of noise pollution? Rude, loud people, constant shitty music blaring out of every spot.
- marcus_holmes 9mo agoConstruction noise, traffic noise, conversations, people being people, etc. It's not a quiet space and we can't really expect it to be. But I agree, that doesn't give everyone carte blanche to be a cunt.
- throwaway290 9mo ago> Now I live in a very soundproof apartment, literally never hear anyone else (our neighbours right next door had a party until 4am with loud music, etc. We didn't hear a thing). I love this now. Unless your soundproofing is thicker than the bass sound wavelength (10m+) it's not physically possible. I know people who live in standalone houses and complain about people across the street having parties because bass vibrations come over It's all very psychological. Good for you though
- marcus_holmes 9mo agokids screaming at each other is my psychological breaking point. My sister's fully-detached, really-nice house has neighbours with post-toddler kids that enjoy screaming at each other. It doesn't bother her. It's like fingernails on a chalkboard for me