The bigger issue though is Kantian ethics. People don't have a reductionist value that enables ordering. There are unique qualities, gotchas, and je ne sais quo

The bigger issue though is Kantian ethics. People don't have a reductionist value that enables ordering. There are unique qualities, gotchas, and je ne sais quoi for each between two people. Love also isn't a math problem, it's irrational and somewhat involuntary. Good luck to people who approach dating like hiring an employee rather than a desire to be mutually better together. Obligatory: https://xkcd.com/55/ https://xkcd.com/55/