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I’ve suffered adverse consequences for it. I didn’t take the other advice in this thread, though: to not put emotional investment into it.
by t-writescode 9mo ago
I’ve suffered adverse consequences for it. I didn’t take the other advice in this thread, though: to not put emotional investment into it.
- nomel 9mo agoTo me > You shouldn’t ignore a problem when you’re in a position to help. is incompatible with > not put emotional investment into it I'll only help because I care (maybe it's the person, the larger goal, etc). To me, everything behind the experience that I call "care" is an emotional one. If I don't care, then that means it doesn't matter to me, which literally means there's no emotional response/motivation to do it. Is this odd?