Reminds me of Lincoln being called "two-face" by Douglas and replying “If I had another face, do you think I'd wear this one?” Self deprecation can indeed be d

Reminds me of Lincoln being called "two-face" by Douglas and replying “If I had another face, do you think I'd wear this one?” Self deprecation can indeed be disarming. But it must never cross the point of eliminating self respect. That's when you go from easy going to pure loser.